What is YOUR Feminine Archetype?
Understanding the archetypes can help you become more aware of the roles you are playing in life and how they can benefit or block you
An archetype is to the psyche what the body is to the mind.
Most often 7 main feminine archetypes are discussed
the Mother, the Maiden, the Queen, the Huntress, the Sage, the Mystic, and the Lover
THE GODDESS EMBODIES ALL OF THESE
WHY IS UNDERSTANDING THE ARCHETYPES SO IMPORTANT?
All of us are running various archetype blueprints and all archetypes have a benevolent and malevolent side - light and dark. When we can love these aspects of ourselves more deeply, our relationship to pleasure and freedom emerges. We are also able to see how others wish to show up for us, and receive their gifts with gratitude.
MANY WOMEN are stuck in a super woman paradigm. Trying to be the perfect example of every archetype there is: the perfect lover, mother, worker, friend, sister..etc this drive for perfection actually creates blocks for true intimacy and sexual pleasure. Others are stuck in princess mode expecting life to give to her, worship her and value her demands and independence with no obligation to be of service to others. Comparing her looks to other women, having fragile emotional triggers and shallow dreams of being so special that only a perfect man deserves her.
Ironically, both of these women chose men who do not treat them well.
WHY?
Because both the WONDER WOMAN AND THE PRINCESS are afraid to be vulnerable and ask for what she really needs. She pretends to have NO DEEP NEEDS which keeps her safe from rejection.
REAL WOMANHOOD IS ABOUT HEALING THIS PLANET AND EACH OTHER
OUR SEXUAL ENERGY CREATES EVERYTHING WE DESIRE
Gina spent her teens being told by her mother that she should cover up, that women who are promiscuous are SLUTS and that boys only want one thing. She often labeled women whores and was very conscious to use sex as a trade for things she wanted. Now her husband no longer tries, she has never had an orgasm and complains he watches sports and has no interest in her. She tells her girlfriends about the sexual fantasies she has but is afraid to share, she has always been the perfect mother and wife, how can she ask for what she really wants without shattering her image and possibly her marriage?
Jaylen has always been able to get attention from men. The desire her give her gift, take her on trips, make her their star…. for a few months. They tell her she’s so sexy and the best lover ever, then they suddenly don’t a relationship and will not commit. They come in and out of her life and she allows it, believing one of these men are her soul mates. Why can’t they see her as marriage material?
There are infinite examples of woman not getting the LOVE and SECURITY we crave from men. In this course you will be able to take care of yourself and INVITE A MAN to take care of you in a way that will inspire him.
FIRST, LET’S FIND OUT WHICH ARCHETYPE YOU’VE BEEN RUNNING…
How we think dictates our behaviors and our physical body.
The feminine archetypes are based on where you source your self-worth from – either success and achievement, physical appearance, giving to others, or intuition.
These become our standards based on how we are raised or came to believe being ‘A VALUABLE, REAL, PERFECT WOMEN’ looks via cultured conditioning. Most women universally hold themselves and others to “the perfect woman” standard. When our value is based on an external attribute, judgement or status, our self-worth rises and falls depending on who accepts or rejects us.
For example, if your value is based on your looks, then you’ll feel good if you’re prettier than most women in the room. If you don’t feel prettier, then you self-worth plummets. If your value is based on success, then you’ll compare and contrast against other people who are successful. If you’re at the peak of life, you’ll feel confident and self-assured.
If you have a low, you’ll feel less than and not good enough again. In an effort to increase your self-worth, you’ll engage in surface behaviors that reward you for surface efforts. And while you may gain many physical and material benefits from living this way, internally, your self-love, peace, value, trust and relationships will be in constant flux.
Each archetype is a unique vortex of positive and shadow qualities. You will fall somewhere on the spectrum.
Archetypes are connected to the chakra and somatic system. Our 5 Elements of the Awakened Goddess journey is to deconstruct the shadow side of your archetype deep in her cervix. Using Kundalini and Tantric practices we raise this energy into the crown, layering in the positive attributes of the other archetypes to uncover the powerfully loving, authentic and radiant woman you truly are.
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